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Are Parisians rude?

The question I am asked most often: "But aren't Parisians so rude?" There is no good way to answer this question. My personal belief is that all people are kind in roughly the same way. Once I went for a walk between two small French villages, and one of the pathways between them was a narrow country road. A woman stopped her car and asked if I needed a ride, or some help. I told her thank you, but no—I was taking a walk. (Actually what I said was, "Thank you but no am walk now.") That same day, I saw a mother carrying a child drop a packet of tissues on the metro floor, and another woman picked them...

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The L Word

Their hope is not to be condemned to live in loneliness. Despite the beauty of Justice Kennedy's prose  — and it is beautiful, most of it; it reminds me, in its way, of the closing passage of Thornton Wilder's "Bridge of San Luis Rey," and we'll get back to that in a minute — it does, in those words, obscure its point: No American citizen should be denied access to an institution of the government, a position we have long held here, including with the production of now-irrelevant glitter maps. I feel like Kennedy was perhaps less interested in suggesting that a life without marriage is such poor broth — and yet there it is. There is something so final and damning about the word "loneliness," a...

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